Absent minded Mentality
Hey! Did you know:
- sex is okay
- so is masturbation
- watching porn won’t make you impure
- one night stands are okay too
- having sex with multiple people doesn’t make you a slut
- even 3-somes or group sex and orgies are a-okay
- sex with the same gender is alright
- not having sex doesn’t make you a prude
- your body your choice no matter your gender
- shaming other people for who they have sex with, how much they have sex, and even their kinks make you NOT okay!
I reblogged this primarily because I couldn’t disagree more. It actually makes me sad that hundreds of thousands of people agree that this is all fine and dandy. That’s part of the problem in our culture is that we only consider the now and what “feels” right and when does sex EVER feel wrong? physically it feels amazing.
Shaming folks for their sexual decisions is never ok but it doesn’t make those sexual decisions ok either. Sex has emotional and physical repercussions and we often discount those things for momentary pleasure or the idea of being young and free. Diseases exist (that condoms don’t protect you from) and you can still get pregnant with protection *shrug* I know people who this has happened to. Then we have people who don’t even LIKE (so definitely don’t love) their sexual partners having children at the age of however young etc. The problem is that you now have people that were immature, raising people that are even more immature because their parents never grew up before having a child.
Lets say that someone DOESN’T have a child. You still have a trail of sexual partners that you may have to bring to the alter with you one day and as much as you believe that what’s in the past doesn’t matter, IT DOES. Your decisions now, affect your future partner. People end up depressed because they feel like they can’t measure up to past sexual experiences or you slept with a man/woman that looks waaaay better than them or is more physically endowed and the list goes on. STOP making everything seem ok because you haven’t experienced the negative affects of it. That thinking is juvenile and a large reason why our culture is as messed up as it is. We feel as if everything is permissible and those that don’t feel as if it is are deemed as judgmental smh I’m praying for our youth. Kids having kids at 14 because of this kind of mentality
solandlunaa asked: Hey man haven't spoke to you in a while. How have you been ? I have another question tho lol. How do you think two young people can stay together ?
chemistry, Jesus (love), and wisdom (stewardship)
chemistry because nothing in this world can substitute not liking someone.
Jesus (love) A faith in christ will help you understand His love requirements (which work!) 1 corinth. 3: 4-8 (exactly what it takes to make it work)
wisdom (stewardship); the number one reason people divorce is finances. Develop early on a CONTROL over your resources and it will prepare you for the long haul (marriage)
Revised shoe “want” list
soooo I pretty much still love sneakers *shrug* I never thought it was a fad for me but I thought I could at least kinda kick the desire for em……wrong!!!! lol Anyway I DO however only want a few more sneakers. I’ve been heavy on runners lately and thats pretty much all I want with the exception of a few Jordans and some yeezy 2s if I ever set aside enough money.
1. animal pack (beast) air max 1s
2. amsterdam air max 1s
3. air jordan 1 breds or royals
4. air yeezy 2 black solar reds
Um thats pretty much it though. Everything else I want is for collectors purposes. I want to collect every shoe jordan won rings in and all i need is a pair of 7s and 8s. preferably cardinals (easy to get) and aquas (I’ve had two pairs already so I’m sure it wont be hard to get em back) SN: I’ve downsized from a little over 70 pairs to about 20. Hype is for the birds. Cop what you like and save some money
A few things that make me happy
I want to help the world out so i figured i’d compile a list of things that if people did, the earth would be a better place. do these things when life gets rough
-eat some really good food…i opt for fried chicken or some great sea food
-get a smoothie because theyre great and get another one so you’re not upset when you finish the first one.
-get your favorite snack; eat it with your smoothie…(instant game changer, your day WILL be better)
-laugh with somebody
-talk to your significant other (unless he/she is the reason life is rough lol then avoid them at all costs)
-(this one is super important, and prolly my favorite) get some alone time, gather your thoughts, and RELAX. rest, just be still for a little while and dont worry about anything. reflect and be greatful.
IS your day better yet? because mine sure is lol j/k but seriously don’t get content in your slumps, do something to uplift yourself so you can navigate through life with a positive attitude.
nameless post…..just venting
It’s my first opportunity to get a few hours (2 or 3) of downtime and im up thinking about how difficult this relationship stuff can be
It’s amazing the audacity women have in relationships. Emotions can often come in the form of selfishness and a lot or most women I’ve encountered don’t have the filter to decipher when NOT to express those emotions or how to control/counter them with positivity.
Every man has his flaws. We all have areas where we can be a little neglectful and just as neglect suggests, its typically something we dont remember to implement. BUT in our lack of implementation, dont completely disregard how good of a man we are or have been. We work HARD and do so to build futures and comfort for our queens but it REALLY sucks when we’ve have been working diligently all day and we’re confronted with whatever negative emotions our woman has harbored at the end of it all.
It just feels bad to want to make someone utterly happy and feel like you’re doing everything right and for you to still go to sleep knowing that the very individual you’re trying to please is discontent with your efforts. heartache sucks