Epitome of Fly

My Babeh (story of how we met/the beginning)

I know i haven’t been on here much so i figured id catch y’all up on a few things. Probably the most significant change in my life over the last few months has been me finding the woman of my dreams (whom y’all will be hearing a lot more about *shrug*) this is just a quick testimony on how we came to be and how we met etc….

soooo i had her in a class in the fall where we barely spoke ever (only one time to my recollection). Basically we didn’t know each other at all but during the spring we saw one another for a split second and immediately recognized each other but it was still like a hi and bye type thing. later on that night after seeing her, she ended up messaging me on Facebook (which i didn’t even know we were friends on at the time) and thats where the consistent communication started. funny thing is that she started attending the same church as i did on that very same night she started messaging me, without me even knowing. 

Her first time visiting my church was at a bible study that i didn’t even show up to. then she showed up to the open mic night our church hosted and was at the church on sunday as well. its just dope because when most people decide to attend a church they start slow and only come on sunday but she went all in from the time she stepped foot in the door. The part that attracted me to her about that was the fact that unlike most people she didn’t start going to the church for me (because she didn’t even know i went there when she started going); she was doing it with the intention of seeking God whole-heartedly. She even signed up for campus harvest, this christian conference in north carolina…before i did! meaning she didn’t even know i was going to that either 

By then we had already been communicating on the phone heavily and developed and infatuation for each other. campus harvest gave us a chance to get to know one another a lot better and after it we hit the ground runnin (meaning it was over a span of about a week from meeting each other that we started talkin). Campus harvest gave us a foundation to start thinking towards a relationship by establishing boundaries and keeping God in the fore-front from the very beginning..We became best friends and shared everything with each other, even the things we had never told anyone ever before in life yo. it was just so dope how humble she was and receptive she was to who i am INCLUDING my flaws and the things that I’m most insecure about. And about a month after campus harvest we ended up deciding that it was official and we were exclusive and what not 

The crazy thing is that we fell in love basically within a month of meeting one another! We even tried to take it slow but we just felt so strongly about one another and so certain about each other that there was no reason at all to wait; its like we were trying to put the breaks on love (which is stupid lol).Its the fastest I’ve ever engaged in a relationship of any kind but its also the most certain I’ve ever been about one. The way God set it up was just dope starting with her seeking Him and wanting to get closer at the conference and doing it for herself in a ministry where she didn’t know anybody but knew she could get closer to God and thats all that mattered smh too dope….Whelp! thats pretty much our story tumblr. i paraphrased so i left out a lot but its just to let you know the history before i start making detailed post about her and what not lol y’all will hear a lot more about her in the future trust me

explanation/absence pt 2

oh and i don’t want to bombard y’all wit information but y’all missed out on a lot of my life and i have a lot of catching up to do so i will be writing A LOT about what has been going on so just be prepared for all of the newness about to come y’alls way.

explanation/absence

ok basically….its been kinda rough

i haven’t been on tumblr for a lot of reasons. one of which is the fact that i did a lot of my tumblr activities from my iPhone which was stolen. meaning 90% of the pictures that i took and the things i wrote were all as a result of me having my phone on me and spontaneously thinking or taking pictures. THEN, my macbook broke out of nowhere with no reason and when i took it to a apple dealer they say its because of water damage and can’t be covered under warranty -_____- (i never spilled anything on my macbook or even had it anywhere near a liquid so needless to say I’m dumbfounded. and the repairs would cost more than the computer itself!!!

Then school got ridiculously hectic and what not as well and it would be literally going out of my way for me to make time for tumblr so i just took a break. I’m going to try and get back here more often because i miss it and i have a lot to share with y’all BUT it will still be inconsistent until i get a newer phone (other than this raggedy temporary phone) or get my macbook fixed….*sigh* just keep me in prayer as usual because i want/need these resources for other purposes as well and money as always is an issue when dealing with mac products smh

Patience/seeing my blessing

This has probable been the biggest test of my patience and faith in God ever yo..

theres basically something that i want (which will reveal itself in time lol no details yet) that God has provided BUT i know that in order for me to reap the benefits of what God has blessed me with i gotta do it His way and in His time which is where the patience comes into play. I know what i want and how i want but it doesn’t mean that God has the same plan for me at this very moment. Its like i can see what He has for me but i can’t touch it until He says i can yo and the anticipation is KILLING me!!!!!!!!! SOOO I’m gonna do things His way and find JOY in doing things His way because i know it will be pleasing to Him and me in the long run…

Hopefully the LONGrun isn’t too LONG tho feel me