Absent minded Mentality
Hey! Did you know:
- sex is okay
- so is masturbation
- watching porn won’t make you impure
- one night stands are okay too
- having sex with multiple people doesn’t make you a slut
- even 3-somes or group sex and orgies are a-okay
- sex with the same gender is alright
- not having sex doesn’t make you a prude
- your body your choice no matter your gender
- shaming other people for who they have sex with, how much they have sex, and even their kinks make you NOT okay!
I reblogged this primarily because I couldn’t disagree more. It actually makes me sad that hundreds of thousands of people agree that this is all fine and dandy. That’s part of the problem in our culture is that we only consider the now and what “feels” right and when does sex EVER feel wrong? physically it feels amazing.
Shaming folks for their sexual decisions is never ok but it doesn’t make those sexual decisions ok either. Sex has emotional and physical repercussions and we often discount those things for momentary pleasure or the idea of being young and free. Diseases exist (that condoms don’t protect you from) and you can still get pregnant with protection *shrug* I know people who this has happened to. Then we have people who don’t even LIKE (so definitely don’t love) their sexual partners having children at the age of however young etc. The problem is that you now have people that were immature, raising people that are even more immature because their parents never grew up before having a child.
Lets say that someone DOESN’T have a child. You still have a trail of sexual partners that you may have to bring to the alter with you one day and as much as you believe that what’s in the past doesn’t matter, IT DOES. Your decisions now, affect your future partner. People end up depressed because they feel like they can’t measure up to past sexual experiences or you slept with a man/woman that looks waaaay better than them or is more physically endowed and the list goes on. STOP making everything seem ok because you haven’t experienced the negative affects of it. That thinking is juvenile and a large reason why our culture is as messed up as it is. We feel as if everything is permissible and those that don’t feel as if it is are deemed as judgmental smh I’m praying for our youth. Kids having kids at 14 because of this kind of mentality